People in groups evolve faster than those going it alone. Peer support is crucial to transformation. That being said, I get it. I don’t love hanging out in online groups. But I do love to be able to crowdsource answers to my questions. And in a situation such as dating where it’s nice to get unbiased answers to your situation, it can be invaluable by helping you to see things you may have missed.  Your friends and family are great to vent to, but when you are in a group of people with same problems as you and who are learning the same things as you, you’re going to get much more useful information.

The lessons are self-paced. You’ll want to spend some time on the lessons before group calls so that you can be prepared to ask questions and get coaching. Group calls are twice a month and are scheduled for 90 minutes. There will be the occasional workshop which can run from 2 hours to 4 hours. Everything will be recorded so if you can’t make it live, you can watch a replay. And of course, the more you participate in the community, the more you will personally get out of the club. What I will tell you is that the more you make this a priority the faster you will find that mate you are looking for.

It depends. If you have experienced so much trauma that its interfering with your day to day life and in many areas of your life, then yes, you should seek a qualified professional. If you have trouble regulating your emotions, meaning you spend a lot of time either being anxious or depressed, then yes, you should seek a qualified professional. To get the most out of this program, you will need to have the skills to return yourself to a more moderate baseline.

Yes, of course you have done work on yourself! And I assure you, it did help even if it was not super noticeable. Self-growth is cyclical. It’s like peeling an onion. You may have only peeled the first layer or two. If you would have gotten to the core of it, you wouldn’t still have this problem. Each time you re-examine an issue and shine light on it in a different way, new pieces of it become ready to be healed and released. Unfortunately, that’s just how healing works. Joining Dating Alchemy could be your chance to heal it for good. There are never any guarantees but if you do the work, you WILL see positive changes.

No. While we will be working with those things that have hurt us in the past, we work with it in the present. There is no need to dig for pain in order for a shift to occur.

No. You will sign a contract but it’s more service level agreement than contract. It will stipulate what you get and set the expectations on both sides. You can cancel any time if you aren’t satisfied and you’ll be refunded a prorated amount or your payments will be cancelled. No questions asked.

Yes, you totally can do this work on your own. I did. But be prepared for it to take you a lot more time to figure it out on your own. Not getting help sooner is one of my biggest regrets because in just MONTHS after I learned how energy works, I met my husband. Why struggle when you don’t have to?

NO! This club and community for anyone that wants greater ease and less stress in dating, no matter how you identify. That being said, if you identify as male, you will likely be in the minority as it's women who tend to be more pro-active in the personal growth arena.

Absolutely! This container is designed with safety in mind. It's a space where you can feel safe to share, to release, to vent and to heal. Any attempt at disrupting that container either on purpose or unconsciously will be dealt with. That being said I will explicitly say bigotry, political, racism, misogynistic or hate speech of any kind will not be tolerated. Nobody will be given a pass to hide behind their religion or politics and be an asshole. Nobody is forcing you to 'accept an agenda' or associate with anyone you don't wish to, but you WILL be forced to be respectful and that IS absolutely decreed by every religion I'm aware of. If you cannot treat everyone in the club as an absolute equal, then this is not the space for you. Anyone that doesn't abide by club rules will lose their access to the community portion.